Thanking My Support System From My Cancer Journey

John Wooden once expressed, “Helping others is perhaps the greatest joy! You cannot have a perfect day without helping others with no thought of getting something in return.”

This quote exemplifies my mindset on the significance of helping others, especially when they need it the most. From my perspective, this quote means that there is no greater joy than helping others every day without the expectations of getting something in return. By assisting others, not only has it given me a sense of peace and happiness, but a sense of pride because I am contributing to the community around me. In this blog, I would like to share how my support system continues to play a role in my life after active treatment.

To begin with, I would like to start with my health care team, which consists of my oncologist and her supporting staff. They have been with me since February 2020 after being diagnosed with colon cancer five years ago. Words cannot express how blessed and lucky I am to have by my side a group of individuals that dedicate their love, time, and fortitude to help patients like myself with their hardships, especially with their health. I have seen how their acts of kindness impact others.

For instance, one of my nurses always provided words of encouragement when I completed a cycle during my treatment of chemotherapy. I recalled my nurse stating, “I am so proud of you, Carla. You have stood strong and faithful during your treatment. Keep going, you are almost close to the finishing line. Remember, you are a champion.” Her words not only comforted me but gave me a sense of purpose to keep fighting for my life. Ultimately, my goal was to be cancer free, which I was able to achieve with the assistance of my health care team. The simple joy of seeing patients smile means the world to them. I am lucky enough to be a part of their journey.

Moreover, after my treatment with chemotherapy, my oncologist has been an instrumental piece towards my recovery. She has been my number one supporter throughout this journey. Until this day, my oncologist continues to monitor my progress to make sure I stay healthy and strong. One of the ways she has impacted my life for the better was when she encouraged me to share my story with Hackensack Meridian Health, which led me to CURE Magazine. This has given me the opportunity to share my story and have inspired so many people along the way. I am beyond grateful for everything she has done for me. She has gone the extra mile for me and due to her passion as well as dedication towards her profession, she has had a positive, impactful influence on me during and after my active treatment.

Another supporting system that has helped me along my way is, without a doubt, my family. They have been with me from the moment I was diagnosed with colon cancer. My parents along with my siblings have been cheering me on before, during, and after my active treatment with chemotherapy. Their support has been vital and I could have not done this without them. Knowing that I can count on them no matter what has given me a sense of peace and tranquility that I still need today. Indeed, I am extremely thankful to have an extraordinary group of individuals that have demonstrated unconditional, selfless love. Blessed and grateful today and always.

This piece reflects the author’s personal experience and perspective. For medical advice, please consult your health care provider.

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