A Day in the Life of a 22-Year Breast Cancer Survivor

September 23, 2025
Patti McGee
Patti McGee

Selected in 2014 as “Women of Status” by the Oneida, NY Zonta Club for all she does to empower women and girls, life coach and inspirational speaker, Patti McGee is an author, a massage therapist and breast cancer survivor of 20 years. Her career encompasses many years of learning and teaching people about health, nutrition, spirituality and bringing the mind, body and spirit together. Patti has made it her mission to help women and youth to overcome health issues, move past trauma and connect with their mind, body and spirit. She believes living a peaceful and balanced life helps prevent disease and illness. Patti has specialties in mastectomy and breast massage and therapeutic massage. Patti is passionate about helping her clients reduce stress, manage pain and bring a sense of well being to their life.

I’ve lived 22 years beyond my breast cancer diagnosis, and each day I honor survival with gratitude, wellness, and hope for myself and others.

Each morning, I wake up and I’m reminded just how precious life is; I have a sense of gratitude that’s hard to put into words. It’s been twenty-two years since I heard the words “You have breast cancer,” and not a single day has gone by that I haven’t felt the weight and the blessing of survivorship. My life today looks nothing like it did before my diagnosis. Back then, I was moving through the motions, not truly living. Cancer was my wake-up call, and in the years since, I’ve made a conscious decision to treat myself and my body like royalty. Every choice I make is a gift to myself, a way to honor the journey I’ve been on and the life I get to keep living.

My mornings are sacred. I start each day with gratitude, taking a few moments to breathe deeply and appreciate the chance to begin again. I make it a priority to nourish my body with healthy foods, focusing on what will make me feel strong and energized. Movement is nonnegotiable, whether it’s a brisk walk, a workout, or a yoga session. I cherish the ability to move freely and with purpose. These rituals aren’t just routines; they’re celebrations of what my body has overcome and what it continues to do for me.

One of my greatest joys is sharing this wellness journey with my son. We’ve created a special bond around health and self-care, finding ways to move, cook, and even relax. From preparing nourishing meals to going for hikes or simply talking about health, these moments are more than just daily activities; they’re reminders of why I fought so hard to survive. Watching my son embrace wellness alongside me is a gift I never expected but treasure deeply. Together, we are building habits that will hopefully last him a lifetime, and I couldn’t be prouder.

Of course, survivorship comes with its shadows. Each year, when it’s time for my mammogram, I feel a familiar nervousness creep in. The anxiety never fully disappears, and I don’t expect it to. But I face it with courage, bolstered by the knowledge that every day I wake up healthy is a blessing. I no longer take anything for granted. Instead, I choose to focus on the abundance in my life — the laughter, the love, the opportunities to make a difference.

Cancer was my wake-up call. It forced me to reevaluate my priorities and make changes I might never have considered otherwise. I shifted into prevention mode, determined to do everything in my power to protect my health and well-being. This transformation didn’t just change my personal life; it also shaped my career and my sense of purpose. I became a massage therapist and wellness coach, channeling my passion for healing and self-care into helping others. There’s something incredibly powerful about using my hands and my heart to guide others on their wellness journeys. I know firsthand how life-changing it can be to feel truly cared for, and I strive to offer that same compassion to every client I work with.

My journey also inspired me to put pen to paper and share my story with the world. I’ve published two books, both born from my experiences as a survivor and my commitment to living fully. If my words can offer even a glimmer of hope or encouragement to someone else, then every struggle has been worth it.

I am living proof that a breast cancer diagnosis doesn’t have to be the end of your story. In fact, it can be the beginning of a richer, more meaningful life. Each day, I choose to celebrate survival by loving myself, caring for my body, and sharing hope with those around me. And for that, I am endlessly grateful.

This piece reflects the author’s personal experience and perspective as a breast cancer survivor. For medical advice, please consult your health care provider.

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